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Ladies Don’t Get Mad at a Dude Who Doesn't Want to Date You Because of Your Size!

This use to make me mad and upset as well. I would obsess over this for a long time in my mind.  While I was whining and mulling over things in my head, life was passing me by.  When I caught the revelation on this, I had let so many good guys pass right by me. 

I used to fret over why I was always the friend and the guy would go out and find a smaller version of me.  One day I stop getting angry and decided to pick up my dumbbells.  I stop going through the drive-thru to pursue my goal of being healthy.  I focused my time and energy on myself. I made the decision I was going to feel great about myself regardless.  I don’t have time to be mad at a dude who chose someone over me.  I learned how to chalk it up to he wasn't the right person for me. 

I chose to remain open to love. I realize the right person would be "ok" with my weight loss journey and would support me 100 percent.  The person who lacks imagination to see my inner skinny chic I determine  wasn't even worth the energy to be mad besides who wants to date such an ugly person anyway.   I want to be with person who sees me as the finish product even though I am still on the assembly line.  I want the man who will wait eagerly for me at the finish line of my journey.  

The right person will come along and accept every inch of your fat rolls. They will love you while you are transforming into a new you.  Until Mr. Right comes along continue your pursuit to your Pretty Hot And Tempting self.